bookcrossing

July 26th, 2010 by ruth

i’ve been trying to relieve some of our bookshelves of their burden. much as i want to get rid of them, it doesn’t feel right to simply throw books away, so i’ve been looking for places where i can drop or donate them. the national library is an option, but while browsing online, i came across book crossing, and i think it’s cool!

basically, you tag your books, and then set “free” them into the “wild”– park benches, taxi, bus seats, or diner tables– and track how it changes hands, and perhaps travel around the world! cool, eh?

bruxism, my foot… or jaw

July 26th, 2010 by ruth

with all the brouhaha surrounding her botox and thermage treatments, charice should just sing and leave the press to her manager. after openly telling local pres that she had these treatments for cosmetic purposes, it required a lot of quick thinking for her american manager to spin a story for damage control. tmj? bruxism? nice try. but if that were the case, why go to a cosmetologist, er, dermatologist? she’d be better off with a charlotte cosmetic dentist, wouldn’t she?

actually, i don’t think she needs a doc. what she desperately needs is a stylist.

C

July 13th, 2010 by ruth

i’m currently writing an article on breast cancer and it makes me want to check term life insurance rates for myself. see, i’m terrified of the big C. i lost my father to it, and many other acquaintances. it could be the age, but i’m hearing of new folks succumbing to cancer on a regular basis of late. and it’s not like i’ve led a health-conscious lifestyle so naturally, i’m worried. sometimes, on morbid moods, i think that it could be just a matter of time.

their mother’s children

July 9th, 2010 by ruth

pouts

my first ever profile pic when i started my foray into the blogworld in 2004. jan in 2006, and now, mia.

what do they say about being chips off the old block?

more spams

July 8th, 2010 by ruth

for a while, my inbox hasn’t been receiving any spam mails, thanks to the selective filter i’ve made that automatically shunts spam mails to the trash bin. however, i’ve noticed that of late, i’ve been getting quite a number of testosterone booster emails again. these people are getting sneaky. must create a new filter.

comfort food

July 7th, 2010 by ruth

i’ve been baking gooey sugar-laden cinnamon melts yet again. i think this has become my comfort food, next to sinigang and tocino. and leche flan, and turon. and planters cheeze curls. and giotto and nutella. arrgh, maybe i should add apidexin pills to the list.

immaterial

July 6th, 2010 by ruth

trying to declutter when you live with pack-rats is like raking leaves off your lawn before autumn is over. document management system? a friend recommended freedomfiler some time ago, but i’m not convinced it’s really what we need. most of our important documents are organized anyway (alright, semi-organized, but i can still find important docs and am on top of our bill payments); it’s the sheer amount of stuff we have, particularly books and manuscripts, that’s disproportionate to our living space, and drives me up the wall.

i don’t think i’m a clinical or pathological hoarder. in fact, over the years, having had to relocate from asia to europe and back to asia, i’ve lost that feeling of attachment to possessions. when you relocate halfway across the globe, and you are forced to do away with a major chunk of your stuff because it’s impractical to move them with you, you learn to become detached to material possessions. you free yourself from the emotional baggage, the so-called sentimental value you pin on certain items, that hampers your mobility.

but hubby… hm, a different species altogether. but let’s see. one more major relocation and i bet, he’ll be a convert, too.

first in first out

July 5th, 2010 by ruth

i’m on another decluttering mode at the moment. i would have called it spring cleaning, except that there is no spring on this side of the earth. i’ve finally been able to convince hubby to part with some of his prized possessions– books– pointing out that until they’ve invented some kind of modern furniture that swallows stuff and regurgitates it as needed, we simply do not have the space to accommodate all our acquisitions. i’m still working on convincing him to shred his manuscript printouts, or some of them at least.

whereas other people commit to disposing a piece of garment or bag every time they purchase a new one, maybe we should implement such a f.i.f.o. rule regarding printed materials in this household.

rainy season

July 2nd, 2010 by ruth

drought is over; rainy season has arrived. and that means: flood time, and yes, in singapore, too! we were not here when orchard road got submerged in knee deep water in flashfloods that were repeated in other parts of the city just a few days later. since we got back from our holidays, the weather has been rather cool, and the last few days, rainy. yesterday was particularly heavy in our area, and the amount of rainfall appeared too much for the drainage systems to handle.

fortunately, floods here subside rather quickly, once the rains stop, and the gov’t agencies are quick regarding damage control and repairs. i heard orchard road was restored in just one day!

and while we live just next to a river that drains to a water reservoir, i’m not that worried of rising water levels. call it the perk of high-rise living. if we owned a landed or a flat on the first levels, we should probably get a homeowners insurance. but then again, does insurance cover “acts of god”?

it been raining for hours now… i wonder if it will be flooded again….

winds of change

July 1st, 2010 by ruth

so today marks the first day of a new era in philippine governance. i watched p-noy’s inauguration yesterday, and like millions of filipinos, i was awed, inspired, broke into goosebumps and became even more hopeful than i’ve been during the campaign and elections. like many skeptics, i know he’s not going to deliver all of his promises. i know he’s going to disappoint many, perhaps even himself. afterall, elected by the people or not, he’s not a superhero, and it will take heroic efforts, and then some, to banish the countries woes. and it will definitely take more than six years to fix decades of wrongs.

but, hope, that’s what noy-noy has given us. and for a country already in the dumps and have lost trust in the government, hope is not insignificant. hope is a spark, an ember. whether that flares to roaring flames, that doesn’t depend wholly on noynoy. for what is one man, to the nearly a hundred million (current estimate) filipinos that make up a country?

the leader is committed to implementing change in governance. pero ikaw, as bmpm asks, ano ang sisimulan mo para sa pagbabago?

it reminds me of my dad when he was in hospital receiving treatment for lung cancer. the nurse was interviewing him and asked whether he smokes. he said, “ah, hindi na. matagal na akong tumigil.”

“kelan po?”
“nung mabaril ni ninoy.”

at the time, i found it strange how that one event had provided my father the impetus to make such a personal change. but now, i’m just starting to understand. this is the change that noynoy is now summoning us all for.

ikaw, ano ang sisimulan mo para sa pagbabago?