jan’s most prized possession

April 27th, 2005 by ruth

it’s been a taxing week, and an equally hectic one awaits. so let me take a break and photo-blog my favorite subject instead: my little daredevil.

jan with mia's laufrad “i want to have a laufrad (lauf=walk, rad=wheel, go figure the correct translation yourself!), exactly like that of mia’s!”. mia, a mate from the kinderkrippe, got hers as a birthday gift early in february. after six weeks of asking, jan got his “from the easter bunny”. we wanted to make sure it’s not gonna end up as another white elephant in the basement, like his tryke. but he has been in love with it. just after two sessions, he was driving faster than i could jog-walk. he loves careening down inclines and prides with being able to drive it alone. i’m using the word “drive” loosely, since actually, this…thing… does not have pedals, you literally have to walk and use your feet to go forward. but, don’t let that deceive you; it can go really fast, much faster than jan could ever go with a real bike. we have to pump our legs just to keep up with him!

jan with mia's laufrad knowing what a daredevil jan is, we got him a helmet. he has learned to accept that he can drive his beloved laufrad only with a helmet on.

jan with mia's laufrad the best places to let him go and run free? parks, early in the morning, when it’s not so crowded yet. or on tracks in forests, or out on open fields.
here, jan is taking a break, picking at the weeds that have sprouted early this month in promise of spring. … which brought in more rain than a two-year old bike-aficionado cares for. wish the weather would lighten up, so jan can go vrrrrooooom again!

the opel karre receives euthanasia

April 22nd, 2005 by ruth

here in germany, cars are revered as cows are in india. most people choose their cars more carefully than they would a flat. see, a car is more than just an electro-mechanical implement to get you to from point A to point B. it’s a lifestyle, a statement, a testament to who and what you are. you know how they say that good drivers feel that the gas and brake pedals become extensions of their feet, and that the shift stick that of the arms so that the car becomes a part of them when they drive? well, what do you think would it feel for a german to be bereft of his car? of course, there’s M, hubby’s good friend, who wouldn’t give a hoot; he’d rather spend 6 thousand euros for his bike, rather than get himself a car. but he’s a geek an exception.

we’ve got the dreaded call. last saturday, we had a seemingly normal car. nobody’s dream car by any stretch, but at least it was utile. one day later, we have a ton of metal scrap and four winter tires that costs nothing more than 500 euro. the injection pump, the heart and soul and spine of the car, is comatose. the car wouldn’t budge, wouldn’t even make an idle hum. nada. of course, like terri schiavo, we can resuscitate it, but spending as much as the estimated three thousand grand for the repair doesn’t seem to make sense. it’s nearly as much as the value of the 7-year old car, and there’s no assurance that it’ll stay problem-free after the repair.

some part of me just can’t reconcile that this car is, from one day to the next, reduced to a heap of worthless scrap. back home, my kid brother is still driving my dad’s corolla ‘91, a car that has received a lot of use and abuse during my reign as its mistress. before me, it was even used for a short span by my older bro as a service car, and the kilometer reading was pretty high. once, during a typhoon, i didn’t dare drive through the flooded roads, and i simply drove to the curb, left it and took a jeepney home. the next day, as i went back to the car, water gushed out as i opened the door. yes it was flooded through, and it took an eternity to get the seats dry again. and since i parked it on a road banked by rice fields, the mechanic also had to pick out rice straw and other debris from the engine. what a catastrophe!

but emil, my dad’s trusted all-around mechanic and from time-to-time, driver, was good with cars. he used to work with grand air, and i’ve always asked him if he could make the car fly, too. he’s made countless overhauls and changed inumerable parts on that car, none of which were bought from an official toyota dealer, of course. he always knew where to get that alternator, or that ignition piece, or whatever else that he needs for a reasonable price. the insignia on the car says it’s a toyota corolla, but under that hood, there’s probably just 5% left of toyota there.

i can’t help but wonder how it would be if emil would be here. when i go home and tell him this story, he’s gonna guffaw in disbelief with our decision to simply let this car go. i can nearly imagine him saying, “bigyan mo ako ng limang libo, patatakbuhin ko yan”. that’s labor and parts included. but of course, hubby won’t have him touch it; he’s not an accredited mechanic from an accredited repair shop, and will not be using official spare parts bought from accredited suppliers.

at any rate, the decision was not ours to make. the car was a gift from my parents-in-law when i got pregnant with jan. it was never transferred to our name, so that we didn’t have to pay the taxes, insurances and what have you’s. it’s technically still my father-in-law’s, although he never gets to see it except when we go visit them. it was nearly painful to tell them the story; they needed to install a new heater just a few weeks ago and are not exactly swimming in money at this point.

so the verdict: f*ck the car and get info on leasing rates, fast!

bean-edict

April 20th, 2005 by ruth

papa beano i know i should have felt more involved in the selection of the new pope. but apart from the short euphoria brought about by the BBC cameras zooming in on the white smoke and ringing bells, i felt distant, disengaged from the whole thing. bad catholic, i know. so sue me, or hound the other 999,999,999 other catholics. or read the unofficial blog for pope benedict xvi instead.

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we have other pressing, concrete, matters to attend to. things that are in my “here and now”. there’s our car, for example, who went bonkers last sunday and is still driving the nuts out of the mechanics in the opel shop. they called yesterday to inform hubby that they have to conduct a test to figure out what’s wrong, and that test alone would already cost something like 300 euro. i don’t want to anticipate how much the damn karre is gonna cost us in the end. at least more than a couple of thousand, for sure. if it gets fixed at all. meanwhile hubby has to shell out more than 20 euro a day taking the train to work. arrrgh, house budget? what house budget?

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there was one sobering moment, though, when the opel died. jan apologetically asked, “hab’ ich irgendwie was falsch gemacht? (did i somehow make something wrong?). man, this kiddo’s diction knocks me off!

photo source: unknown.

this thing called blog

April 18th, 2005 by ruth

ages after the interview was conducted (was still with the .com domain), the article is finally out in this month’s issue of good housekeeping-philippines. my one-minute’s claim to fame, hehehe…

this thing called blog this thing called blog

our other kids

April 14th, 2005 by ruth

jan at pinagpala with two out of her four children currently out of the country, my mother opted to celebrate her birthday with the kids jan celebrated his very first birthday with: the orphans from pinagpala children’s home in pila, laguna. nothing grand, mind you, but the thought that she remembered the children we so want to help, but couldn’t do much for, meant a lot to me. i don’t have a lot of future goals (this round’s current topic in blogkadahan), but to make a difference in the life of at least one of these kids is one. i wish…

photo taken in may 2004.

tadaaa..! new skin!

April 13th, 2005 by ruth

bongga! i owe this new blogskin to the impressive self-tutored web designer, thess. i’m just glad to have been one of the lucky ones she’s chosen to make a template for, before she starts charging, hehehe… ganda, no?

german living, the little details

April 12th, 2005 by ruth

one of the best things about having visitors from the philippines (or probably from anywhere else, too) is that, for a few days, i was able to see germany and my life here from another perpective. little things that i don’t pay attention to anymore suddenly come to light again, as if seeing them for the first time. for example, i re-realized (am i coining a word here?) that there are no doorknobs in germany. we have levers on the doors instead. the toilet flush can take a wide variety of possibilities: it could be a button, a knob, a lever, a panel, a motion sensor or a chain. it may be located on the water tank, on the wall, or on the floor. when you go grocery shopping, not only do you have to bag your own purchases yourself, you have to even bring your own bag. or it may be that when you buy a couple of books, you’ll be asked if you’d like to have a bag. it’s not like at the national bookstore, where you buy a ballpoint and they automatically wrap it in a plastic bag and seal it with a foot of adhesive for added measure. in restaurants, a glass of water is not served by default; you’ll have to ask for one (and pay for it), and you’ll have to specify if you’d like normal mineral water or you’ll most likely get carbonated water. iced-tea is not commonly served, unless it’s summer; apple juice is the classic beverage for kids. gummi bears and rice wafers are the classic kiddie junk food. mcdonalds’ menu meals are composed such that you pay the same price no matter which meal you choose, so that for four-something euro, you can either have two cheeseburgers or one big mac, plus fries and cola (yes, it’s called cola, not coke). driving around is not so difficult, as long you have a map in tow. if you know a bit of german geography, you may even simply follow the signs and directions along the autobahn. if you do get lost, no worries, every two kilometers on the highway is an emergency phone you can use. oh, and yes, sorry, but driving even at 180 kph doesn’t give you the license to stay on the leftmost lane.

oh, there are so many more little things. but apart from that, having stayed close with my sister’s family for nearly 5 whole days, there were also behavioral differences i’ve noted: they have a more spontaneous tendency to laugh, to enjoy, to let their happiness bubble to the surface, than the people i’ve grown accustomed to. given their rigid itinerary (frankfurt, venice, florence, rome, paris, london and athens in 22 days), they were relaxed and carefree. they were easy to satisfy and didn’t make fuss when things (or the weather) didn’t go as expected. they were… pinoy.

uh-oh. now, i’m getting homesick.

am baaack!

April 11th, 2005 by ruth

… from playing tourguide to my sister’s family. pity how time flies by so fast when you’re enjoying and having so much fun. am still on cloud 9, relishing and replaying the last 5 days in my mind.

nanay

April 4th, 2005 by ruth

i’ll make this one short. i’ll keep the drama. for i don’t have the skill to put into words what my heart feels for the woman who brought me out into this world. happy birthday, ‘nay.