penis envy?
last year, he won the madaus most innovative research award. early this year, he published a review paper that became the second most viewed article in pubmed in february. the next month, he won the poster prize at the DFG congress in kiel. as a result of that, he got invited to deliver another oral presentation at the university there. he left today and will be staying at the maritim, all expense paid. and now he’s done it again. here i am, blogging for more than a year, and still, he beats me at freelance writing. when i saw the 8-page spread in the may issue of the pharmazeutische zeitung, a magazine for pharmacists, i thought, “who the heck is going to read such a long scientific article in a magazine?” but when i saw the contract and found out that articles are paid per line, i said, “aw, surely you could have stretched the article a bit longer?” hehe…
but honestly, i feel envious. jealous. that’s the thing when you both come from the same professional background. you start thinking about the what-if’s. but only for a while, because the answer comes back quickly and clearly. no, you couldn’t have done it, too. not with a child to take care of, as well. and then the perspective changes, and all envy evaporate. and then you realize you wouldn’t have exchanged places anyway. afterall, you’re the one who gets to spend so much time with your kid, AND you get to spend his honorarium. hah! how lucky can you get!
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22 Responses to “penis envy?”
June 6th, 2005 at
ahaha that is the way to think! Besides, behind a great man is an even-greater woman! diba?
you’ll surely get your chance to excel in your chosen field. Just a wee bit more time with Jan and you can start spreading your wings once again.
anyway, congrats to S! And hey, happy spending!
June 6th, 2005 at
could be marriage destructive if you thought of the other way around.
you may accomplish honors one day in the same field, perhaps he will choose to think the way you are thinking now, then siya naman ang magsasabi ng How lucky can a guy get, mukha naman din na matiyaga siya mag alaga kay Jan. They can play ping pong all day together. Thats how the father and son image registered in my mind.
June 6th, 2005 at
two birds with one stone…spending lots of time with Jan and spending his honorarium hahaha
congrats to B!
June 6th, 2005 at
i hope that soon you’ll delve into your field once again. i’m sure you will, and you’ll do wonders! in the meantime, make sure he gets to write longer articles, and enjoy the shopping.
June 6th, 2005 at
Way to go, Ruth!
June 6th, 2005 at
Congrats to your husband. What an accomplished fellow. Good thing you are such an accomplished wife and mother! And gorgeous to boot!
June 7th, 2005 at
congrats to baste! galing-galing talaga! aba, congrats din sa ‘yo ruth kasi kung wala ka sa tabi nya, di nya ‘to magagawa rin diba? syemps, kayo ni jana ng kanyang inspiration! yihiii!!!!
June 7th, 2005 at
that’s the spirit ruth! let baste toil while you and jan “enjoy” the fruits of his labour.
congrats!!
June 7th, 2005 at
you are doing really well Ruth; di ba mas maganda ang reward mo dahil nakikita mo araw-araw si Jan? Paglaki-laki nya, I’m sure ikaw naman ang hahataw! (para namang nanggugulpe, hanep sa term, hataw)
June 7th, 2005 at
for every great man, there’s a woman’s behind!! hehe!
June 7th, 2005 at
salamat, mga kafatid… pero teka, bakit nauuwi sa akin? he’s the achiever (did i say he’s not even done with his PhD yet?), ako’y chuwariwap lang…
June 7th, 2005 at
sabi nga nila, in marriage, the achievement of one is the achievement of the other, likewise with failure.
kaya don’t fret, enjoy jan’s youth. by the time he becomes more independent and you get to work full time again, i’m sure you’ll miss your time at home.
June 7th, 2005 at
you are such a lucky woman. and true, behind your husband’s success is the wife, which is you as Anp quoted too.
have a nice day!
June 7th, 2005 at
oo nga, di pa tapos ng Phd yan…pag natapos, kami naman ang uutang bwehehe
June 7th, 2005 at
hey congrats to both of you. galing naman. am sure you and jan are two proud fellas now…
June 8th, 2005 at
here the POV of the envied-penis (the title caught me to sit and read):
its a give and take thing. He gives you take. The end.
June 8th, 2005 at
ganyan din ang policy namin ni hubby. sa kanya ang awards, sa akin ang rewards.
June 8th, 2005 at
Congrats to Seb & to you gaya na rin sa nasabi ni Anp behind a great man is an even-greater woman:)naks!kasama din ata doon sa pag distract mo kay jan or taking jan away from his papa while his papa bz with his paperworks,so utang ni seb yan sa iyo dafat noh?hehe
June 8th, 2005 at
Knowing the consequences of your action clears up all the doubts in the world. Its the best medicine when doubts sets in so just continue doing this girl… not a lot of people can be persuasive to one’s self. I am the bread winner and being a Mom makes it doubly hard so you’re even on a better situation than I am coz you get to spend your time with your kid growing which are magical moments. and of course the shopping! Some girls have all the luck! ;oP
June 9th, 2005 at
yeah, but you’re the wind beneath his wings (naks).
i’ll give up my professional life for a child in a heartbeat! congratulations to you both. man, jan will be one super-smart young man.
June 10th, 2005 at
asua Ruth, kung di ba naman dahil sa yo, di ma inspire si hubby mo. tama si Tin, his success is yours too, may bonus ka nga lang because you get to spend his honorarium!
June 10th, 2005 at
hello ruth!
you have every right to be proud of your accomplished hubby! ang galeng naman! congratulations to him, and yup, enjoy the shopping!