something old, something new
it feels like a blast from the past, having our stuff from our previous flat -our previous life- in germany with us again. all the mugs and china, oma’s cupboard, the books, jan’s toys and a few knickknacks we simply couldn’t part with. oh and of course, my aging, slow but much appreciated desktop. it’s not much, really, our shipment was less than 5 cubic meters in all, just the essential personal effects, vestiges of our stay in germs land. vestige. like the appendix: it’s there, a token from a past life, something you can actually do without, but would keep if you can, if for no apparent reason. however, looking at some of them now, they look awkward, like they don’t belong here. pretty much like the foreigners we were when we first arrived here, i guess. oh well, let’s see how they “integrate” with the rest of our new stuff…
instead of being in an unpacking frenzy, though, i’ve more or less instructed the movers to just put everything in our spare room. i’ve asked them to unpack only those boxes labeled fragile, just for insurance claim purposes. the rest… well, we were able to make do without them for 2 months, so, apart from jan’s stuff, there’s no hurry. nobody’s going to read those books and documents in the near future anyway. for some, perhaps not ever. besides, i am more comfortable doing the unpacking on my own, in my own pace and according to our needs. i guess i’ve lived too long in germany and has gotten too much used to doing things on my own.
if there’s one thing i learned from this relocation exercise, it’s that if you really think about it, it doesn’t really take much in terms of tangible, material stuff to have a comfortable life. the last few weeks have not been perfect for us, no, not having the financial padding to fully furnish a flat in one go. but really, there are just a few items left on our absolute-must-have list. we still lack a dining table, andin the meantime have been making do with a tiny table from ikea –nothing more than a board on four legs, really– which i plan to use as a working or extra kitchen table later on. our mattress still lays on the floor (but just til tomorrow, alleluiah!), and half of our clothes are still in suitcases. sure, it’s been inconvenient at some points and required a bit of improvisation, but heck, we’re far from struggling. it’s been fun, it’s been the adventure we have been treating this whole relocation experience all along.
how about you? what’s priority one on your current must-have list?
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6 Responses to “something old, something new”
August 15th, 2007 at
Hi Ruth! I believe in ‘the less the better’, so I believe we got it all. Sans the millions nor fancy cars.
Health is what we have, that’s enough
tama ka, only the essential be brought out of the boxes for now..everything will fall in their proper places as days go by, and of course when you have the time as well.
kisses to jan
August 15th, 2007 at
I can totally relate to this post. I still have some things in our malle (metal container used for shipping) that I haven’t unpacked yet. Relocating is a bitch but the fact that you’re in a different country really makes up for all the trouble.
I think it was for this reason that we never bought any furniture during our 4 years in France (we had hand-me-down furniture, a mattress without a bed, and a McGyer-installed table made up of a wooden plank and 2 plastic containers) : we are now fully-trained to sleep on hard surfaces, and readily squat on the floor to eat dinner, even though we now have a proper table for that.
Isn’t it nice, though, to start all over again?
August 15th, 2007 at
maid service? hehe.
i honestly cant think of anything we need right now. two months after we moved in, i still have a couple of unopened boxes in the spare bedroom (mostly my books, hubby’s old training manuals, and ninna’s toys), which like you we’ve learned to since live without. (at least ready na sila for our next move whenever that may be).
August 16th, 2007 at
priority one right now is….patio table & chairs. i want to get a set bago man lang mawala ang summer dito. like you, karamihan ng mga boxez namin na alam ko namang hindi namin kailangan ay pinalagay ko na lang sa attic. yung mga boxes ng damit ay nasa basement, para deretso sa washing machine. i unpacked kitchen essentials tsaka yung mga knick-knacks. nakakatuwa nga, parang wala kaming kalat ngayon hehe.
August 17th, 2007 at
hi thess! oo nga naman, milliones na lang ang kulang, haha!
kala, indeed! that’s one of the perks of relocating: you’re “forced” to declutter!
meeya: exactly what i thought about some of the boxes: leave them as they are, ready for the next move. kaso lang, i’m not sure if the boxes will remain intact pa for another move. mukha nang kawawa eh.
rhada: patio furniture? naku, dami dito, lika! hehe… at amen, sa walang kalat. maaliwalas tignan!
August 17th, 2007 at
Hi Ruth! When we moved I was 6 months pregnant so the absolute must-haves were the baby clothes I bought in Manila. And a laptop and wireless router (which my husband set up the minute after we moved into our new apartment) to keep in touch with family and friends back home. Other than that, I can live without 90% of our stuff… some of the books and clothes we thought we couldn’t live without and had to bring over here are actually still in storage, almost 2 years later.
Moving is good - makes you start from scratch and reassess which of your belongings you really need and want, and which ones just don’t feel like “you” anymore.